Thank you

A couple of months back I went in to check on a small area under my nose. They biopsied it and it came back as basal cell. I pushed the panic button as I was already having enormous anxiety. I went to my hometown and saw a dermatologist and yesterday had surgery. It was intense and required allot of stitches and work to make things look presentable, but I am so very fortunate. Β I will need to be careful and monitor myself for further skin cancer and some follow up treatment to fix that area. I feel relieved and very blessed!

I want to thank you for all of your kindness and support. I never knew that blogging would mean having a second family, friends and a support system. As many of you know, the past months have brought about anxiety, ptsd issues and general stress. I have gone to therapy, meditated and willed myself to “just get over it” but nothing has worked. I have taken a small step with the help of several of you and it seems to be working. I want to give a heartfelt thank you to everyone!

Love, Lynn

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  1. Oh, I’m so sorry to read this Lynn!

    My Mom had Basal Cell cancer on her nose. She’s had surgery twice on it, but she still has the cutest nose. I wish I got her nose. πŸ™‚

    We’re both fair so wearing a hat and sunblock are a must. I’ve worn sunblock as part of my make-up routine since I was 35. I probably didn’t start soon enough.

    I am sending you thoughts of a speedy and full recovery, and HUGS!

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    1. Thanks so much for telling me about your mom. My mom has had it on her back and forehead. I didn’t realize how intense the procedure would be but am so happy to be done. I have OCD so it really put me into a frenzy and finally I am taking anti anxiety meds. which is long over due. Thanks for always being there and being my friend xxx

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  2. Oh Lynn, I am so glad it is over. Hopefully you won’t find anything else and this is just a one time thing. I am sorry for all the stress you have been under, and am sending prayers and hugs your way!

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  3. My SIL had surgery on her face a year ago April for Basal Cell above her lip. Her check-ups have been clear-but I will NEVER forget the look in her eyes when diagnosed! It is the most common skin cancer Lynn my friend Debbie (http://themountainkitchen.com) has melanoma-I reblogged her latest post months ago on my site to make people aware! I live in the Sunshine State-my family is always greased up in sunscreen, we wear Coolibar clothing when outside (www.coolibar.com) and take all precautionary measures. It is a scary thing for you and I am proud of you through your anxiety, you did the right thing! Big giant Hugs to you Bestie!!! xoxo b-2

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  4. Now Lynn, it’s all over and done you had a surgery and finished. But why are you thinking of skin cancer and all that bloody stuff.
    It is the stupid mind that calculates and scares.
    Just do not bother.
    Look back the pains and courage you have taken and experienced. Just kick it on it on the ass.
    Take a deep breath when ever you remember. Leave it out thorough the mouth as much as possible.
    No worries at all.
    Get well soon.
    I am sure you shall Dear.
    You have cooked for the whole world. We now cook for your safety and good health.
    Shiva
    πŸŒ·πŸ™

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  5. Lynz, hope you’re well on the road to recovery. Everyone, I’m sure wishes you well. Including me, you should only worry about things you can change and leave the rest in a basket by the door until you’re ready to throw them out with the rest of the rubbish.

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  6. I had no idea Lynn! I thought you were spending so much time with the babies that you had pulled back from writing as much. I’m so sorry. Thankful you have had it taken care of. Here’s to your healing, inside and out.

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    1. Thanks so much. It is really the anxiety and depression that took me down! I have been stuggling to function and so this basal has been a little blip but added stress. I started taking medication with the help of a fellow blogger! She calls, writes and checks on me. God bless her. So, I feel much better for the first time in many years.

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  7. I, too, thought you were busy with family, grandbabies and had cut back on posting. So sorry to hear of these troubles, Lynn. Proud of you for dealing with it in such a timely way. You are on your way to healing. Wishing you the very best, calming thoughts in the process. We are all in your corner. With love, Van. πŸ’•

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  8. Hi Lynn, that’s good you got it taken care of. I hope you have a quick, smooth recovery. My husband has had several basal cell cancers removed from his face, and he’s always so relieved when the procedures are done. Thinking of you, and sending you good thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery! xx

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  9. I am all too familiar with MOHS surgery and know how drawn out it can be. I was the first patient in the morning and the last to leave in the afternoon with half of one side of my face missing and plastic surgery scheduled for the next morning. After too many procedures to count I still have the occasional cancer removed (have one scheduled for next week). I now consider it just a minor inconvenience. I’m sure you too will take it in in stride in the grander scheme of things.

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  10. Oh sweetheart, I know exactly what you went through and how you are feeling! I had squamous cell cancer on my lip that was removed with Moh’s surgery about 5 years ago. It’s such a frightful feeling. Now you know why I wear hats all the time, and lots of sunscreen. Take care sweetie, just remember to get annual skin checkups! Skin cancer is easily beat, thank goodness. xoxoxoxo

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  11. I am glad you got it taken care of. Rest and take it easy for a while and follow doctors orders. Sit down and let them spoil you for a while.

    I had a few terrible anxiety attacks when I hit menopause. I had to leave stores and let my husband finish dinner alone in a restaurant. Many women in our age group experience the same.

    The more you fear these attacks the more you will get them. Embrace the anxiety attacks, smile and welcome them like a long lost friend. Find out what you are scared of. What is the worst that could happen in that exact moment?

    I meditate now every day, and I found a natural cream that helps me to deal with all the effects of menopause.

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    1. I felt silly posting it after watching you and diane and your bravery! Its minor but put my already anxious mind over the top! It has inspired me each day watching you both! I am taking medication which has helped! Much love xxxx

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  12. Oh my, Lynn, I did not know you had to go through this. Of course, it leads you to the limit. I am so glad all went well and perhaps it was more removed during that surgery at the same time. When the soul works things out often the body shows it and gets rid of it on the physical level. I hope everything is healing quickly and I am so glad all went well πŸ’–

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      1. Oh no, never think that way! I am always there for you, Lynn πŸ’– I will always have time for my friends. That is something completely different. I am glad we have the email option which makes us stay in touch even when we are not as much on our blogs as usual! Always feel free to write, dear πŸ’–

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  13. Oh dear, had no idea you were having such a difficult time. Take good care of yourself, take the the necessary time to heal. In the meantime, know that like so many here, I am sending you healing thoughts & virtual hugs!

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  14. Wishing you a speedy recovery Lynn! I know how you feel with the anxiety and worry with just having gone through a surgery myself, just hard to not stress out when things aren’t right. 😦

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  15. Rest up Lynn!! Hope you heal up nice and quick. Melanoma is a big issue here in Australia we don’t realise how much it affects other countries too. Great that you got it sorted out fast. And as we say in Australia in summer “slip, slop, slap, seek and slide”.
    Slip on a shirt, slop on some sunscreen, slap on a hat, seek some shade, slide on some sunnies(sunglasses).
    Must go and get my skin checked next year.
    Hope you are back to normal soon!! Hugs!!

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  16. Please take care because skin cancer can grow internally without showing evidence on your skin! I’m no expert so ask your doctor about this — if he/she is any good they’ve already talked to you, but I’ve heard stories of people who weren’t warned.

    Hope you feel better for the holidays!!!!!

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  17. Here I thought that I was so behind in my Reader and missing your posts. I had no idea, Lynn. I am so glad you took that leap and started the medications because I believe you can take back control of your life this way! Wishing you a full, speedy recovery…you are important to your family, friends and now us your fellow bloggers! You are in my thoughts and prayers, huge hugs and kisses XOXO

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  18. Glad you are doing well Lynn. Debbie from The Mountain Kitchen has been battling with skin checks after she had a melanoma removed. Do you follow her? It’s too bad that we have to pay for the conditions we put our skin in long before anyone knew better.

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      1. This is my friend Lynn I mentioned above-She has had 4 incisions removing Melanoma-the first one was the worse-each check up found another area to biopsy and removal. She is very open about this journey and advocates education to everyone! You would like her I know. Visit her blog http://themountainkitchen.com/tell her we are Besties! its a reality check for sure. I have known Debbie over 2-1/2 years now. She lives in Virginia. xoxoxo b-2

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